COMMUNICATION & RELATIONSHIPS

Communication and relationships can look different across neurotypes.

These resources explore communication styles, self-advocacy, boundaries, friendships, relationships and connection, helping individuals better understand themselves and build meaningful relationships with others.

Communication &
Self-Advocacy

The Double Empathy Problem

Explores how misunderstandings between autistic and non-autistic people can arise from differences in communication and perspective, rather than deficits in one person.

Understanding Autistic Communication

Explores common autistic communication differences, including direct communication, information sharing, processing differences and mutual understanding.

Autistic Communication is Not Defective

Challenges the idea that autistic communication is inherently disordered or deficient and explores neurodivergent communication styles from a strengths-based perspective.

Indirect Language: PDA Scripts & Phrases

Explores indirect language and practical communication approaches that may help reduce pressure, support autonomy and foster collaborative interactions for PDA individuals.

Self Advocacy

Explores self-advocacy, autonomy and strategies for communicating needs, preferences and support requirements.

Relationships & Connection

Friendships and Autism

Explores friendship, connection and social experiences from an autistic perspective.

Friendship, Loneliness & Belonging in Autistic People

Explores friendship, loneliness, belonging and connection, challenging common assumptions about autistic social experiences and relationships.

Autistic Friendships Are Different,
Not Less

Explores how autistic friendships may differ from neurotypical expectations and highlights the value of authentic connection.

The Science of Co-Regulation

Explores how supportive relationships help regulate the nervous system during periods of stress, overwhelm and emotional intensity.

Regulation & Energy

Spoon Theory

Explains Spoon Theory as a way of understanding and communicating energy, capacity and the impact of everyday demands.

ADHD & Communication

Explores how ADHD traits such as impulsivity, distractibility, working memory differences and emotional intensity can influence communication, relationships and social interactions.

Social Battery

Explores social energy, burnout and the impact of social interactions on neurodivergent wellbeing.

Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria & ADHD

Explores rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD), including how perceived criticism, rejection and interpersonal conflict can impact emotions, communication and relationships.

Neurodivergent Love Languages

Explores how autistic and neurodivergent people may experience, express and interpret care, affection and connection in ways that differ from traditional relationship expectations.

Neurodiverse Love Podcast

Podcast exploring neurodivergent relationships, communication differences, connection and lived experiences across a range of neurodiverse partnerships.